“Thank you” goes both ways

by Andrea Powell, HPCCR Marketing Manager

thank you 2014At Hospice & Palliative Care Charlotte Region, we get thank you notes every day.  They are beautiful, heartfelt expressions of gratitude, written by loved ones, and reading them makes our job a whole lot easier.  I’ve said before that caring for patients at end of life is a calling for our clinicians, but that’s not to say it doesn’t take a toll emotionally.  We have hearts.  We get attached to patients too.  And saying goodbye isn’t easy for us either.  But reading these notes keeps us going.  The words on the paper make us realize that what we do is special.  Meaningful.  And always appreciated.  Here are just a few tidbits:

From a niece: “I did not have a positive experience with hospice care during the loss of my father in Virginia and was somewhat skeptical about hospice care here for my aunt.  I am so glad our doctor referred my aunt to HPCCR.”

From a daughter: “This was our first experience with hospice and we were very impressed with the care and comfort given to our mother.  Attention was paid to every detail for her and the family.  You were honest with us and made helpful suggestions.”

From a family: “Thank you for helping our family through the most difficult time of gradually and painfully parting with the most gentle husband and loving father.  Each member of your team has been kind, supportive, and thoughtful every step of the way while providing only excellent care.”

From a husband: “Without you, we could not have made it with so few scars.  You showed us the way and provided the knowledge and caring services.”

From a daughter: “You are helping us to get through this difficult time in our lives, watching and loving our precious mother as her health declines and she slips away from knowing us and remembering her own vibrant life of 97 years.”

From a husband: “The feeling of confidence which you instilled came not only with supplies and medication, but with the sense that your very personal attention and true understanding of the total situation was always only a phone call away.”

From a son: “I got to spend every second of the last week of my mother’s life with her because of all of you and that is a gift I can never repay.  So I hope ‘thank you’ is enough.”

These notes show gratitude to us, but what these precious, grieving family members don’t realize is that we should be thanking them.  Because these notes remind us why we do what we do.  They refuel our capacity to offer love when our compassion tanks run low.  Their words demonstrate the faith and trust that was given to us; they boost our spirits and renew our dedication to our mission on a daily basis.  You really can’t put a price on that.

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One Comment on ““Thank you” goes both ways”

  1. cintilley Says:

    Love it!

    Cindy L. Tilley, SPHR
    Vice President Human Resources
    Hospice & Palliative Care Charlotte Region
    1420 East Seventh Street, Charlotte, NC 28204
    TilleyC@HPCCR.org or 704.335.3503
    Visit us at hpccr.org

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